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Monday, 22 September 2008

  • Job Hunt

    Its been almost three months since we moved back to LA.  After getting us settled, I started on my job search.  I've been searching on-line and contacted some of my friends from law school.  However, as of yet, I have not had any offers much less any interviews.  Its been rather frustrating.  I knew that all the years I've been in Korea would work against me, but I didn't think it would be this bad.  Its been nice being home and being here for the boys, but if I don't find work soon, our savings will run out.  Dong-Soo's salary isn't enough to support two households - we have bills here and he has to pay his bills in Korea.  And so, I am reaching out to all you who read my blog - if there is anyone who is need of a lawyer who speaks, reads and writes Korean fluently (doesn't have to be a law position), please let me know.  Thanks!

     

Sunday, 07 September 2008

  • Dong-Soo's Visit

    This past week, Dong-Soo flew in from Korea to spend about 10 days with us.  He wanted to do as much as possible with the kids before he had to go back.  He has been faring pretty well without us, but he was really glad to be a family again.  With the kids starting school this week, there really wasn't a lot of time to do the big things he wanted, but we were able to go to Yosemite, visit Disneyland, see a Dodgers game and ride the waves at Santa Monica.  This is the most we have done since we've been back to LA.  The boys had a blast, but they are really tired.  I did a lot of driving, but it was worth it.  We really enjoyed having him here even if it was only for a little over a week.  Dong-Soo had to cut his trip short.  He got a call from work and they needed him back.  We drove him to the airport last night and he was on stand-by for the 12:20am flight.  We were told to be at the airport by 9:00pm, and we didn't know if he would be able to get on the plane until 11:30pm.  We were grateful that there was 3 passengers who didn't show up and he was able to get on.  He will be back in December for Christmas.  Please keep praying that the Lord will open up an opportunity for him so that he can be here with us permanently. 

    The boys have been adjusting well.  They enjoy their new school.  Matty has yet to make any friends.  He hasn't been brave enough to introduce himself to anyone, but hopefully one of the kids will be a kind sould and seek him out.  My cousin has been teaching at this school but just moved to another school this year.  She told us that the both of the boys' teachers are great, and the boys seem to like them. 

    As for me, I am still seeking employment.  It has been rather frustrating, but I am hopeful.  There has gotta be something out there for me.  If it isn't law, perhaps I can use my skills elsewhere.  I just have to focus on what it is I really want to do, and what will be best for the boys as well.  Whoever is reading our blog, if you know of anybody seeking a fluent Korean speaking attorney, let me know.

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Saturday, 12 July 2008

  • Back in LA

    We're back in LA.  Yeah!  It is sooooo good to be home, but after being away for 12 years, there is still a lot of new things to get used to.  We've been hear for a little over two weeks now and during this time, we found a home, bought a car, got the kids enrolled in a "hagwon" so that they are able to at least converse a little when they begin school, and received all our stuff from Korea.  The living room is still full of boxes that need unpacking, but things are coming together.  I'm tired, but its a good tired knowing that we're on our way to getting settled in our new home.  The boys are adjusting, but Zack still misses home in Korea and all his friends.  We have been at Immanuel Bible Church for the last 2 Sundays.  The boys have made friends quickly there.  In fact, we went swimming yesterday with some of the kids from church and attended our first flock meeting at the Pat and Sunny Ahn's.  It was also good for me to get back into touch with good dear friends.  It has been 12 years and everyone looks the same except that we're now all married and have children.  However, it was just like being back in college sharing and laughing with old friends.

    Although its good to be back, we have been separated from DongSoo.  He has been away the last week on business in HAWAII- life is tough.  He is on a plane as we speak back to Korea.  He will be joining us in LA at the end of August or early September.  For the first year, he will be traveling back and forth, and hopefully, next year he will be able to stay for an extended period of time, i.e., until we decide to go back to Korea.  Yes, our move to LA is not permanent.  We plan to move back, but who knows.  God may have other plans for us.  Please continue to pray that our separation with DongSoo will not be long, and he will be able to join us here soon.  Also pray that the boys will adjust well and that I will also be able to find a job soon.

    Its nice to be back home, and hopefully I will be able to see all of you soon.

Monday, 16 June 2008

  • Home Sweet Home

    I didn't want to let the cat out of the bag before everything was confirmed, but I think its time.  Yes, the LimClan is on their way back to CA.  After being in Korea for 12 years, I can finally say that I am returning back to home sweet home.  Not that living in Korea has been all that bad - I found my loving husband here and the Lord has blessed us with two children while being here.  I also actually met a lot of nice people.  However, there has always been this desire to be back "home".  We've purchased our tickets, shipped all our belongings, gave the notices at work and school, and all that is left is saying good-bye to family and friends we leave behind.  The kids are hesitant to go.  They don't like having to leave their friends, and Matthew is a little apprehensive of having to adjust to a whole new environment.  But, I've promised that we do a lot of fun stuff and he will be able to see Evelyn and Lauren (Christine Chang's daughters) whom they got to get close to while they were here in Korea, and Gunny and Lynny (Sue Hur's (Park) kids), they were helping set up the school in Suwon.  I'm excited, but also worried.  Moving is one thing, but uprooting your family to another country involves so much more work and emotion.  However, we know that the Lord is good and we trust in Him to guide us in our new journey.  Pray for us as we make our last arrangements, and we'll see you all in CA.

Tuesday, 29 April 2008

  • Frustration with the Law

    Being a US lawyer in Korea, I have found myself being very critical of the legal system here.  In fact, it has come to the point of immense frustration, and I wonder how the judicial system of this country has lasted this long.  Although there are steps being made to rectify the problems, the process is tedious and slow.  I had my first experience with how hard it has been to make any changes.  Korea has been well known for developing at a rapid rate.  The economy has become the 13th largest in the world.  The city of Seoul is filled with skyscrapers, and you will find it hard to find someone, even grade school children, who do not have a cell phone.  However, the rapid growth has led to more crimes, especially violent crimes.  The number of kidnappings and child molestation crimes have risen considerably.  Korea used to take pride that you could allow your children to roam free without worries.  Now, parents take time out of their busy schedules to pick up their children from school and shuttle them around to their afterschool activities.  "Soccer moms" were hardly existent in Korea, but now parents are afraid to let their children ride elevators in their own apartment buildings unattended.  All this to get to my point.  Do you happen to know the sentence for a person found guility of child molestation in Korea?  In the states, such crimes involving children would carry a sentence of at least 25 years.  In Korea, its rare if they receive a year in prison.  Most often only get probation.  I hope your jaws are dropping.  Murderers get the maximum of  3 years, and there is a statute of limitations of 15 years for crimes of murder.  All this has come to light recently when two young girls were reported missing on Christmas Day last year.  Their bodies were found recently dismembered and buried.  The man who committed this crime has admitted to killing more women in the past.  Although he has yet to be tried, the attorneys in our office probably bet that the gets no more than 3 years for each woman he has killed.  The public has never been informed of how many years these criminals will live behind bars, and much to my dismay, many don't really care.  The reason is that judges are left to their discretion to determine the sentence for each criminal.  There are no sentencing guidelines which mandate a minimum sentence for a crime.  Therefore, sentences can range from 3 years to 10 years for the same crime, and one can receive a harsher sentence for a lighter crime depending on the judge you get.  You should know that judges are appointed right after graduation from law school, which is an undergraduate program in Korea.  Thus, these judges have had no real life experience with the law, but they are already handing out judgments.  To mend this situation, the judicial branch set up a sentencing commission to come up with a guideline that all judges will have to follow.  My brother-in-law has been appointed to this commission.  However, when we discuss the problems, my brother-in-law sees no light at the end of this long tunnel.  He has come across numerous obstacles which makes him wonder if the country really wants such a guideline.  The major problem is that the public does not even know that such a commission exists - the attorneys in my office are not aware that a commission was established.  I could go on and on about the obstacles, but it would take many pages and many hours to lay them all out.  Maybe this isn't the proper venue, but I just recently visited my sister and her family, and after talking with my brother-in-law, I had to find someway to vent my frustration. 

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